Journey to Wholeness: Lina's Transformation
Lina’s journey toward healing and self-discovery began when she reached out for help, specifically requesting support for her struggles. At first glance, her situation seemed uncomplicated, with no apparent issues that required deep concern. However, there was a palpable tension beneath the surface—a struggle Lina was hesitant to share despite the trust she felt in the process.
Determined to help her feel safe and supported, AWT counselor created an atmosphere of love and encouragement throughout their sessions. Gradually, Lina began to open up, revealing her battle with emotional attraction outside of her marriage. It took time, but the gentle approach allowed her to express what was truly troubling her.
As the AWT counsellor listened closely, she not only heard Lina's words but also felt the deep cry of her heart, torn between need and regret. Through their conversations, several underlying issues affecting Lina's life came to light. She was grappling with profound emotional needs and a sense of emptiness in her marriage. For years, communication had nearly vanished, and her husband frequently employed silence as a form of punishment. This emotional distance had eroded Lina’s self-confidence, rooted in her challenging upbringing. A persistent feeling of unworthiness made it difficult for her to embrace many of the biblical promises. Although she was a committed Christian, she struggled to balance her faith with practical belief, surrender, and the activation of her spiritual life.
Throughout their time together, the focus shifted to awakening the spiritual aspect of Lina’s life. They explored biblical insights about God's heart, His unconditional love, the true meaning of forgiveness, and its importance for both Lina and those around her. Together, they delved into the concept of spiritual warfare and how to continually pursue holiness with God’s help, embracing His constant acceptance and unwavering love.
As the sessions progressed, Lina found her way back to the Bible and renewed her commitment to daily personal devotion, receiving regular encouragement. She became increasingly aware of an emotional exploitation happening in her life and, despite her own needs, chose to reject this unhealthy attachment.
Together, they worked on expressing emotions in a healthy way and distinguishing between feelings and actual needs. They identified habits that needed to be replaced with healthier alternatives and integrated these changes into Lina's daily life. Guidance was provided on handling her husband’s silent treatment with emotional balance and resilience, helping her recover from the psychological and emotional toll it had taken.
The most significant transformation came when Lina resolved to resist any emotional attraction outside her marriage. Even though her husband remained unchanged, the transformation within her was profound—she found freedom and was no longer bound by her previous struggles.
The work of God in Lina’s life was evident, affirming that He is close to those who seek Him and is capable of restoring everything. While she still faced areas of weakness and spiritual battles, Lina now understood that overcoming them was possible only through the presence and guidance of the Holy Spirit.
